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cream_and_custard) wrote2022-06-14 02:19 am
cream_and_custard) wrote2022-06-14 02:19 am
Entry tags:
- anime,
- bf,
- micro blogging,
- public,
- queer
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Sakura and Li's cross-dressing made me think about me and my bf. Neither of us care much about presenting in a way expected of us. I wouldn't say either of us go out of our way to, if you looked at either of us I think we would be unremarkable. In what we allow ourselves to wear occasionally and how we allow ourselves to act around each other both in public and private, I think, is more freeing then most hetero couples allow themselves however.
That's why I feel so comfortable around him, I don't feel forced into a typical idea of femininity around him. I don't feel like he sees me as a stereotype. Also I can have fun with him because he is not overly serious about presenting like a man. He is not aligned with anything or any unassigned identity, he is just a carefree boy.
It's an enjoyable experience to not have to shave because he won't ask me to or treat me as disgusting for not. But I also love being cutesy and adore extremely fem aesthetics.
He can wear my dresses and look cute. Let me pick him up and spoon and pepper him with kisses. But he can also dress in a typically boy-ish way, and be an insane tough monkey boy.
It's fun to be free to move in whatever direction makes you happy. If I have any agenda, it's freedom for the people around me, to live and explore themselves without limitations. You can only benefit.
That's why I feel so comfortable around him, I don't feel forced into a typical idea of femininity around him. I don't feel like he sees me as a stereotype. Also I can have fun with him because he is not overly serious about presenting like a man. He is not aligned with anything or any unassigned identity, he is just a carefree boy.
It's an enjoyable experience to not have to shave because he won't ask me to or treat me as disgusting for not. But I also love being cutesy and adore extremely fem aesthetics.
He can wear my dresses and look cute. Let me pick him up and spoon and pepper him with kisses. But he can also dress in a typically boy-ish way, and be an insane tough monkey boy.
It's fun to be free to move in whatever direction makes you happy. If I have any agenda, it's freedom for the people around me, to live and explore themselves without limitations. You can only benefit.