Interpersonal Problem? No, Wellfare Problem.

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My mom does not want to live with her mom, but because of perceived financial insecurity, she let her live with her regardless.

Children have no financial means of their own, and she struggles with special needs, so even though much of our family hates her, our cousin lives with us regardless.

My mom and her husband do not want to live with me, I do not want to live with someone that does not want me, but the job market is poor, so I with with her regardless.



If our grandma had financial literacy, or more will, if the government gave more, they would not be living with someone that doesn't want them.

If the government gave young people universal basic income, and more help to people with special needs, she would not be living with someone that doesn't want her.

If the job market was well, if I had universal basic income, I would not be living with someone that does not want me.